My name is Matia Ingrey, and I am 14 years old. I dance at National College of Dance in Australia.
@matiadancer
Can you briefly walk us through your story – how you started and how you got to where you are today.
I was introduced to ballet at the age of 5yrs for fun. At 10 yrs, I was accepted into the Australian Ballet School ITP. This started the journey to possibly become a professional ballerina. I joined NCD in 2020. Since training with them, I have been fortunate to win a few prestigious events in Australia. Such as The Australian Classical Challenge and The Royal Academy of Dance - Isobel Anderson Award in my age division. I now attend as many training opportunities as I can to improve and grow as a dancer.
We’re always bombarded by how great it is to pursue your passion, etc – but we’ve spoken with enough people to know that it’s not always easy. Overall, would you say things have been easy for you?
When I perform, I feel a desire to entertain and move my audience. I definitely feel nervous before a performance, but honestly, I feel more excited to perform. My passion and desire to succeed far outweigh the chance of failure. Having the support of family is extremely beneficial when pursuing a future in ballet.
What personal limitations if any did you go through in your young career?
Self-doubt and comparison are some things I am guilty of at times. Fortunately, I’m now at a stage where I know my limitations, have accepted my weaknesses, and am learning to appreciate my strengths.
Has anybody ever tried to limit you on what you could do? If so how did you fight it?
Through the years, I have had situations where I haven’t felt supported. There is always going to be someone who doesn’t maybe click with you. Generally, it’s those attempts to intimidate that actually push the need to succeed.
How do you conquer negative talk?
I choose to focus on the positives. Of course, I have moments where I am very hard on myself. A chat with my Mum or my dance teachers always helps bring a positive perspective. Sadly, negative talk from others usually comes from those with insecurities. It’s important to focus on supporting others. As dancers, we should be lifting each other. No one is perfect, and everyone deserves the opportunity to feel valued.
What is your favorite quote?
“Make each day your masterpiece.” - John Wooden
So, what’s next? Any big plans?
I have full-time with the National College of Dance in 2022, along with training when possible at the Australian Ballet School as an invitee. I would love to attend an international ballet summer intensive too.